"A Church Connected" - I
Corinthians 12:3-13 - May 23, 1999
A few weeks ago I was going to garage sales with my wife. At one
sale I found a really nice set of golf clubs at a terrific price.
I am mostly a duffer, but the clubs I use are obsolete. These
were perfect and my investment would be minimal. My wife agreed.
When I took out the driver to feel the swing I got a big
surprise. The clubs were for a left-handed person. So much for my
great bargain.
The left-handed golf clubs are of no use to me but to a
left-handed person they are perfect. It just so happens that I
have a friend who plays golf with me who is left handed. And when
we play we both play by the exact same rules. The only exception
is that we cant use each others clubs. We are fairly equal
in our ability but it is impossible for us to use the same
equipment.
The church at Corinth believed that everyone should be like them.
They had developed a "club" mentality that had certain
requirements. If you didnt play by their rules, dress like
them, act like them, you didnt get in. Paul was encouraging
the Church at Corinth to be more diverse. As long as they
promoted sameness, their faith would be only superficial.
The church is not a club. It is not an organization that depends
on superficial dress codes and look alike motions. What makes the
church unique is that we are not all the same, but different. Not
only are some of us left handed and others right handed, we think
differently, vote differently, disagree on many issues and even
believe differently. What makes us interesting is the fact that
we come from different backgrounds, different communities and
each of us has individual talents that are unique. And in spite
of all our differences we are still part of the same Church and
therefore connected. We are therefore bonded together not because
we are all alike, but because we share a common mission.
Since we are all different it is not always easy to relate to one
another. People are threatened by strangers, folks who are from
other places, or who represent other points of view. People are
afraid of diversity. They feel secure when things and people are
familiar. They want to protect their tradition and image. But
Paul concerned himself with mission. In other words, it
doesnt matter that we are all the same. What really matters
is that are all working together for the common good and for the
glory of God.
The fact that we are all different can be a problem. People tend
to group together and interact with those who live and believe
similarly. We feel safe when we are surrounded with folks who
share common opinions and beliefs. As soon as someone or
something unfamiliar appears in the group there is a discomfort
which sometimes leads to conflict.
There is also a positive side of being a diverse group of people.
Diversity can lead to tolerance of people who have different
opinions or are simply "different." A group that is
diverse is more inclusive of those who dont fit in anywhere
else. Granted it is more difficult to have a clear vision, since
there is such a wide range of opinions and beliefs, but diversity
broadens our vision and expands our possibilities.
Naturally, the more diverse the group, the greater the
possibility of conflict. But, conflict can lead to creativity and
create an atmosphere where tension can be vented. Conflict forces
us to communicate and to struggle with the difficult issues of
life. We have to be intentional about interacting. We have to
make an effort to mingle, to engage people other than those we
know.
The church, Paul says, is like a body. When one part aches, we
all ache. When one part is successful, we are all successful. It
doesnt matter whose child is being baptized, we can all
celebrate. When a church event is successful we can all be
thankful. Like it or not we are all connected. That is what gives
us our strength, that is what it means to be the church.
Perhaps you remember the movie, "If you could see what I
hear". It was about a blind man and a deaf man. They
witnessed a crime. Separately the crime could not be solved, but
by using both of them they were able to piece together the
mystery.
The Church is a team. This is not "my" church. A Church
cannot function with only a minister. It takes every
individuals gifts and talents to work for the common good.
If we were all alike it would be a boring congregation. It is no
less true for families. What makes for healthy families is every
individual having the freedom to be who they are. It is no
accident that opposites attract. If you and your mate are exactly
the same, your relationship would be dull and meaningless. What
makes your life exciting is that your qualities compliment one
another.
I have been counseling a young man in the community (who is not a
member of the church), whose marriage is falling apart. It cannot
be successful because it is not a team concept. In this case his
spouse is giving about 10% while he is giving 90%. He feels bad
because he has tried to make it work. Unfortunately, his spouse
is not willing to try. As we have reflected on his relationship
it has become obvious that it is not a team. Unless a
relationship is 50/50 there is no team concept, no unity. No
group, no relationship, no Church can succeed unless all the
different parts are working together.
Paul reminded the church at Corinth that everyone is different
but all are important. There is a variety of "spiritual
gifts" or talents but all are inspired by the same God.
Whenever one person dominates the whole thing breaks down.
Instead of teamwork you have individuals competing for the
spotlight.
This is the time of year that we witness many golf tournaments.
There is always a lot of attention given to the winners. But,
what about the caddies? Without them there would be no
tournament. And sometimes it is their suggestions, encouragement
that enables the golfer to select the right club or make the
right shot. Without them, those that play the game might not have
enough energy to finish the course. Caddies are important too,
just as every member of this congregation. We are all part of the
body of Christ, all part of the "spiritual" team.
Dr. Keith Wagner, St. Pauls United Church of Christ,
Sidney, Ohio