"Why Me?" - Exodus 3:l-l2 - August 3l, l997
One morning this past week I was having coffee with a friend and
he asked me if I could help him move an elderly couple. They had
no family and were in a bind. I thought to myself, "what
excuse can I use to get out of this one?" And as he talked I
kept thinking, "Why me?" Doesnt he realize that I
have other things to do? Then he told me how both of the people
had major health problems and they needed help in a hurry. I felt
some compassion and I replied, "call me this afternoon if
you cant find anyone else." It was one of those
half-hearted responses. And I must admit I was relieved when the
call didnt come.
Why me? All of us have asked that question at some time. This is
what Moses was thinking when God called him from the burning
bush. Moses protested. "who am I to lead the
Israelites?" And God responded by saying, "it is YOU I
have chosen."
When we are asked to do something the first question we ask is
Why Me? Surely there are others who are more qualified for the
task at hand. We can think of a hundred other persons who would
be right for the job, but for some mysterious reason, we have
been chosen. Why me also has a hidden agenda. It can mean, this
task is beneath me. It disrupts my schedule. Or, I have more
important things to do. So when there is someone else who can do
the job we say, Why Me?
Notice that as the Lord invited Moses to lead the people he was
also asked to take off his shoes. In other words. The call to
work for God is a call to humility. We are influenced greatly by
the Protestant Work Ethic. And what we do is glorify our work
when our work is nothing more than doing the creative work of
God. Martin Luther attacked the work ethic by saying that all
work is divinely ordained. For him the word vocation is not work
but worship.
One time William Willimon at Duke University was asked by a
student what they could do to serve God while at college.
Willimon replied, "First by studying hard. You are called to
be a student." That is what Luther meant by vocation.
It was not just leadership that God wanted Moses to provide, it
was also a relationship that called for an attitude of humility.
God created a garden, like he did with Adam and Eve, then invited
them to help. Like with Moses, God invited him to help. And God
calls us not to work ourselves to death, but to help.
When we say "why me" we may be just whining. One thing
the world is full of is whiners. You know, people who always
complain when they are asked to do something. People who are
negative when it comes to responding to a need. Whining is a
outward visible sign of an attitude problem.
Thomas Edison once stared at the ruins of his laboratory which
was totally destroyed by fire. Instead of saying what a waste of
resources or whining about what he had lost he said, "All
our mistakes are burned up. Thank God we can start anew."
Three weeks after the fire he delivered his first phonograph.
Edison didnt say, "why me?" He saw a disaster but
saw the potential in it. In this case, an end to past mistakes
and an opportunity to begin new.
God calls us to respond, but our attitudes stand in the way.
Its not that God wants us to work like crazy. God wants us
to humble ourselves and respond when there is a need.
There was a professional golfer by the name of Robert De
Vincenzo, who gave his winning paycheck to a woman who had a
dying baby. It turned out that she was a phoney. When a golf
official asked told him about the woman who and swindled him,
Vincenzo replied, "Thank God no baby has died."
We have no record that Jesus ever worked or urged anyone else to
do so. In fact, we have one example where he told Mary and Martha
that it was just important for Mary to study as it was for Martha
to work. (Luke 10:48-32) The call of Jesus was a call to ordinary
people like fishermen and tax collectors and housewives to leave
their careers and follow him. It is a relationship God wants not
professional workers.
When we give our jobs too much time and energy they dominate our
lives. And when the soul purpose of life is our work then work
becomes idolatrous. Our relationship to God is a gift from God,
not a human achievement. Our vocation is not a job but a call, a
means by which God is glorified by the work we do. There in lies
the key. Our work is only a means to an end. But, no matter what
our work, it is for the glory of God.
Why Me? Not because we have great talents. Not because there is
no one else. Not because it is our turn. Because we have been
chosen.
Dr. Keith Wagner, St. Pauls United Church of Christ,
Sidney, Ohio